Where did 2008 go I ask?  Much went on in my life. Some good and some bad. In each incident I learned something about myself. I learned that I am stronger that I thought. That things happen for a reason. That the friends I have I can count on through the hard times. Laugh our asses off with the good times. But all in all I am loved by those in my life. Those that know me well will understand what I am saying. I had to let myself be taken care of by those friends at a time when I was hurt the most. This was hard since I am used to taking care of everyone else. It was at that time I asked myself “What now?” “Where do I go from here”.  Forward in life. Forward to make the changes needed to be a happier person and get rid of things blocking my path. To appreciate what you have. Not the material but the love you share with those in your life. Looking back when my husband & I first started out we had very little. Over the years we both worked very hard to buy our first home. Then two more homes. We raised our sons.  Did all the school and sports things boys like to do. Now our kids are grown and are on there own…well except for Anthony is back at home. Patrick is on his own and doing well.  We enjoyed our empty nest while it lasted.  Pete & I are enjoying working on our home. It will be a long project but the end result will be a good one.

Life will always throw you changes.  Some changes will come slowly. Some will come fast. Just take one day at a time.  Think about the change and ask your self “What now?” Listen you your inner self. Go to your happy place and meditate. The answer will come to you.

The biggest thing to remember is that no matter what happens in your life as long as you have the love of family and friends you can get through anything. No amount of money can ever replace real love and friendships. These are gifts to be cherished.

So in 2009 Love , Laugh, and Embrace those you encounter everyday.